Basically an inhibition is when you deliberately limit yourself in an attempt to
be accepted and to not be rejected by other people.
The trouble with inhibitions
is that they keep you from being the person you really want to be and living
your life to the fullest.
(To read more about inhibitions in general please
check out the self improvement article Lose
Your Inhibitions - The Why and How of No Inhibitions
inhibitions are exactly the same. Sexual inhibitions keep you from being your
self sexually and from experiencing and enjoying your sex life to the fullest.
If there is some non-permanently-damaging sexual activity
between you and a consenting adult that you find repulsive or for
some other reason don't want anything to do with, then you've
probably got some sort of sexual inhibition.
extremely common. Almost everybody has, or has had, sexual
inhibitions. The problem with that is that it doesn't feel nice. It
feels limiting and unnatural.
And the truth is that that kind
of inhibitions are useless - you don't need them.
Let me just
repeat that: In your lovemaking with another consenting adult (or
yourself) you do not need as much as one single sexual inhibition!
Having very few or no sexual inhibitions (other than not doing
permanent damage), on the other hand, feels natural and wonderful.
Well, you can get there, if you want.
You Don't Need Sexual Inhibitions
So, please allow me be blunt and get straight to the point:
Pretty much all kinds of sexual inhibitions are a
They will ruin your sex life
If you want
a good sex life, most of your sexual inhibitions have to go.
If you already have a good sex life and if you want to keep it over
time, or, even better: If you want to have a great sex life,
then ALL of your sexual inhibitions have to go.
all of them. Pretty much the only exception would be things that
cause permanent harm to other people (physical and/or
psychological/emotional harm). And hey, unless you are in need of
psychological or psychiatric help, you have no desire to permanently
hurt other people, least of all those to whom you make love.
So, to continue my blunt streak ...
As someone who is there,
and who has helped other people get there, too, you can trust me
when I say:You don't need sexual inhibitions. Not a
Uninhibited sex, on the other hand, is SOOOO
Having sex with someone you love who loves you back,
and knowing that ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you feel like doing at any
given moment is okay, is liberating and exhilarating in the extreme.
When you reach that point, you will realize that this is how it
is supposed to be.
For you and your love partner(s)
to be totally sexually uninhibited and having completely uninhibited
sex is how your sex life was always meant to be - and how you will
forever want it to be.
There really can be no
discussion about this. None. Try it, and you will know.
However, it may not be like that for you now. If it isn't then
you'll want that to change.
Ahh, uninhibited sex: the joy of being completely sexually
uninhibited and living life with no inhibitions.
Anyone who has ever
tried the very addicting drug of sex will agree when you tell them
that finding ways to lose your inhibitions is the best way to enjoy
sex. After all, sex is something that is natural, created to be good,
and incredibly enjoyable. Why else would sex be created if not for
us to enjoy it, so why should we let inhibitions get in the way of
our enjoying sex the way it was meant to be?
Lose your Inhibitions
So many people around the world are very sadly inhibited,
and it prevents them from being able to really enjoy their life to
All their inhibitions do is tell them that they are unable
to do what they want to do, and thus they have to fight to repress
their natural, God-given urges to do things to members of the
opposite sex that should remain in the bedroom.
it for a minute: So many problems are caused by a lack of sex. If
everyone in the world got the right amount (and the right kind) of
sex, there would be a lot less frustration, bad tempers, angry wars,
Granted, more sex wouldn't solve all the
problems of the world, but many of them would be solved.
the Catholic priests, Orthodox Jews, and other religion-dictated
sex-repressed people could have sex, there would be no scandals. Sex
with no inhibitions is the secret to freedom, and there is nothing
better than freedom.
Isn't that what life is all about: living life
the full? If so, why would there be problems when sex comes into the
It is sad that such a large number of people are
taught from a very young age that sex is bad, as that causes them to
war with their inner selves for the rest of their lives.
Sex is something that is natural, as is masturbation, sneaking a peek at
naked men and women, and desiring beautiful women and handsome men.
However, children that grow up in conservative or ultra-religious
homes are told that sex is wrong, and thus they have to fight their
urges to have sex.
Imagine how confusing it can be for people
when their body starts telling them that sex needs to happen soon,
They were taught all their life that sex was wrong, but all
of a sudden it becomes a need.
These are the people that grow up
worrying about their "strange" sexual urges, trying to find other
outlets for their sexual frustration, and never really having
fulfilling sex. They always think that sex is wrong, therefore to
them it really is something that they should not be doing.
How to Lose Your Inhibitions
secret to losing your inhibitions: telling yourself that your
inhibitions are wrong and you have nothing to be ashamed of.
were created with those genitals weren't you? That sex drive you
feel is natural, right? Aren't you enjoying sex just the right
amount, or do you think you enjoy it too much?
absolutely no reason why you should be inhibited about your
sexuality, as it is something that is natural. Inhibitions are
obviously natural, but why should you let that stop you? Everyone
else has inhibitions too, but you don't see them freaking out about
it. You can't let your inhibitions stop you, as that will make you
Want to get over your inhibitions? Here
are some ways to lose your inhibitions and start having great
• Accept Who You Are
– Remember that some
people have natural tendencies towards certain sexual activities,
but who says those activities are wrong? As long as they are done
safely, with consenting partners, is completely legal, and is
enjoyable, what could possibly be wrong about it?
The way you go
about it is more important than what you do, and you have to accept
that you like certain things and embrace those things.
Correct Your Attitude
– If you are thinking that there is a reason
to be ashamed, that is a mindset that you need to correct.
think that being sexual or wanting to have sex is wrong, as that
will hold you back. Change your thinking and correct your attitude
towards sex in order to start down the road to great sex.
Free Your Mind
– Your mind is always going to play a central role in
your sex life, and you have to force your mind to let go of the
things that are holding you back from enjoying sex.
It may be body
issues that are stopping you, or it may be your very conservative
upbringing. Whatever is the case, let it go and free your mind from
• Let it Out
– Repression is usually the case when you
have inhibitions about sex, and you usually keep your feelings
However, the road to freedom starts with your getting it out
of your mouth, as that throws it into the air and brings it to the
fore of your attention. It might be hard for you to accept it, but
you have to say aloud to yourself, "I like sex! Sex is good for me!"
• Start Expressing It
– If you have a hard time expressing your
sexuality due to your inhibitions, find a way to force yourself to
express it. If you are ashamed of your body, force yourself to
purchase lingerie and show it off. If you feel that sex is wrong,
start forcing yourself to have more sex. Find a way to let out your
inner sexuality, and you will find that your life will feel better.
• Live It Today
– Find what you love about sex, and start living
If you like lots of oral sex, start having lots of it. If
you like to have sex in a different position or in a unique place,
do it today.
Don't let your inhibitions hold you back and prevent
you from being the person that you want to be and living life the
way you want it; your inhibitions are your slave, not the other way
Getting over inhibitions sounds hard, and it really
takes a good deal of effort and time.
After all, these inhibitions
have been in your mind for years, and thus you have to overcome
years of training and thinking.
However, if you really want to
experience the joy of uninhibited sex, you are going to have to make
yourself do these things that seem so strange to you. They may seem
strange at first, but you can bet your boots that they will become
second nature to you once you have become accustomed to them.
Living Life with No Inhibitions
you live life with no inhibitions? What is the benefit of having
uninhibited sex and enjoying your life as best you can?
Would you rather have sex with a woman who is ashamed of her
body, or one that flaunts it?
Would you rather make love to a lady
who is free with her expressions of pleasure, or one who remains
Would you rather have the woman put you where she wants you
to go and show with her body that she is enjoying it, or with
someone that lays still and waits for you to get it over with?
Do you want a woman who actually enjoys sex as much or more than you
do, or do you want one that just does it out of duty to you?
Do you want a man who is so ashamed of the size of his
penis that he has a hard time getting up it, or with one that is
free no matter what his size?
Would you prefer a man who experiments
with different body parts when bringing you pleasure, or one that
just mounts you and rides you until he is done?
Do you want a man
that is adventurous and looking to have fun with sex, or one that
just has sex in the same way that he masturbates – because he needs
Both sexes can agree that a man or woman without
inhibitions will be far more fun than someone with inhibitions, as
they are the ones that are able to have sex – the real kind of sex.
Sex is something that is fun, and it should be treated more like
a game than a duty.
If you are having sex with someone because you
think you HAVE to do it or it is a duty for you, then you aren't
having sex at all. The only way sex can really be all that it's
cracked up to be is if you can get out of your head and into the
moment. Enjoying sex is the secret to great sex, and those that
enjoy sex are the ones that make it pleasant for others.
and women both consider sex to be only as good as it is for their
other partner. Your rating scale of 1 to 10 is not on how good your
orgasm was, but how good your pairing was overall. You can have
great orgasms, but if the sex is dull and flat all you will be
getting is physical release. It isn't really sex or lovemaking if it
isn't fun, so start having fun with your partner when it comes time
to play "Hide the Salami".
Sex should be a game, and you have
to find ways to make it fun. If it isn't fun, then it's just an
exchange of fluids for the purpose of procreating. You didn't think
sex could be boring, but it just got boring with that description
Sex cannot be boring, as it is the best activity in
life, and it is your responsibility to enjoy sex the way your body
was meant to.
You were designed to feel every wave of pleasure, and
uninhibited sex is reveling in the fact that your body is basically
one giant sex toy that was created to give and receive pleasure!
Freedom = Responsibility
freedom of uninhibited sex comes responsibility, however. Just
because you have no inhibitions, that doesn't mean that other people
It is your responsibility to practice safe sex, not
only to prevent pregnancies but also to prevent the spread of
diseases. The number of partners you have sex with may not matter to
you, but the fact that you can get an STD by having sex with too
many partners should be a worry that you keep in mind.
goal of sex is not to be as adventurous or original as possible, as
there is nothing that you can do that hasn't already been done.
Don't go so far with trying to have sex that you end up getting hurt,
getting in trouble (you can actually get arrested for indecent
exposure), or get sick. You have to act responsibly with your
freedom, as freedoms require a responsible attitude to handle
If you can get that sense of responsibility through
your head, then a whole new world of fun and pleasure opens up to
you. You now have nothing that can hold you back from experiencing
as much pleasure as your body will allow, and let me tell you that
it is a lot of pleasure.
"Unto the pure, all things are
pure." If you think something is right, pleasant, and enjoyable, and
your partner agrees with you, why not? Things that you have been
told were wrong may not be, and you can enjoy your life and your sex
so much more thanks to the simple fact that there is no need for
even one inhibition in your life.
Good luck, good sex, and
may you enjoy your life of uninhibited sex and no inhibitions!
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