Interested in orgasms? I mean, really, REALLY interested?
how to give a female an orgasm - without even touching?
Then this blog post
might just be for you.
Note that is a pretty long and in-depth blog post.
It's NOT your everyday orgasm advice or female orgasm tips.
a bit of that, but mostly it's about very advanced sex.
interested? Then, please, read on ...
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Surprise Question While Visiting an Old Friend
Recently, I was
visiting one of my friends of old in another part of the country when my
friend's niece showed up.
This niece had heard I was coming and was, in the
words of my friend, 'dying to meet me, because I sounded so extremely
interesting'. (How about that!)
Apparently, with this niece, personal
development and spirituality and that kind of stuff was a great and hot, but so
far pretty unexplored interest.
The niece entered the house, and we
exchanged pleasantries, sat down and did a brief bit of small talk. Then my
friend had to excuse herself for a few minutes.
Having me alone for the
first time the niece looked me intently in the eyes, leaned over the table, and
said: "I've heard that you can give a woman an orgasm without even touching
Talk about a change in subjects! :-) How to Give a Female
an Orgasm - Without Even Touching:
Passionate About Passion - Sexual
I have no secrets, least of all from my good friends, so
obviously my friend (the host), who knows this, had been talking about me to her
As it was, the niece was looking at me intently, but with open and
earnest interest, so I gave her an open and honest answer. A small speech,
actually. I do that sometimes when someone asks me about something I am
passionate about and I sense that they actually want to hear what I have to say.
Well, as you may have noticed (here on thePersonalDevelopmentGuy.com) I am
not only passionate about personal development, I am also passionate about the
subject of making love.
In fact, I combine them and use love making for personal
And what, with both personal development and love making
being such utterly interesting things to do the results are bound to be
spectacular - which they are. In short, I heartily recommend using sexuality for
self improvement and personal growth.
But back to the questions my
friend's niece went on to ask me, several of which had to do with orgasms. One
of them was, "So, Soren, can you really give a female an orgasm without even
Truth to tell, I do get this question every once in a
while - together with all sorts of more common questions about sexuality and
Well, here's what I said to my friend's niece ....
How to Give a Female an Orgasm - Without Even Touching:
Can You Give Someone Else an Orgasm?
"Well, first of
all, there are many, many kinds of so-called orgasm. People use the
word about just about any kind of sexual climax - from a plain old
ejaculation, to a pleasurable release, to a very pleasurable
release, to what I would call an actual orgasm.
To me an actual
orgasm is a very powerful thing that goes way beyond even a very
pleasurable release. Real orgasms are in the realm of experiencing a
merging with your partner and life, the universe and everything."
The niece was nodding. I had her attention, which is always a
great incentive for me to continue a soliloquy ... so I did:
"Secondly, I don't believe anyone can give anyone else an orgasm,
You or I may be a very experienced and highly skilled
lover plus an extremely loving person but we cannot FORCE another
person to have an orgasm. It can be fun to pretend that you can, but
in fact the other person has got to allow it.
To put it
differently 'How to GET an orgasm' is much more relevant than 'how
to GIVE an orgasm'."
The Primary Ingredient in How to
Get an Orgasm
Let me just expand on that before I continue
retelling what the niece and I talked about:
In fact, having an
orgasm - or not - is a choice each person makes. Most often
Yep, most often there are several physical
factors involved, but the KEY point is this:Having an orgasm
is a matter of allowing.
An orgasm is something a person
ALLOWS. In my opinion an orgasm is a
. A surrender, of
sorts.When you have an orgasm you ALLOW whatever is going on
to affect you ... even to the point of experiencing great pleasure
and oneness (orgasm).
So, in that sense, I've never GIVEN
another person an orgasm!
Love partners I have been with have
had orgasms, though, lots and lots of them (multiple orgasms) - so
many, in fact, that the question of REDUCING the number of orgasms
and changing the KIND of orgasm have become the primary concerns in
order to not get worn out.Sidebar - a Note About Me and My
Just in case you think this is bragging, it's not.
It's simply a statement of fact. As indeed it should be when you
have as much focus on and spend as much time on love making as I do.
Neither I, nor the love partners I have had, measure the quality
of our love making in the number of orgasms we experience - that
would make no sense to us - to us making love is about making LOVE,
expressing and experiencing our love - and personal development and
having fun, too, of course.
Turns out that this non-focus on
orgasms is one of the most orgasm inducing things there are!
Well, there's a piece of orgasm advice for you right there - an
excellent tip on How to Give a Female an Orgasm - Without Even
Touching:Don't try to give an orgasm, just express love and
have fun playing around.
Which Question is More
How to Give an Orgasm ... or How to Get an Orgasm?
Clearly, since experiencing orgasm equals allowing, the answer
to the above question is this:
'How to get an orgasm' is much
more relevant than 'how to give an orgasm'.
To put it
plainly: It is not up to your partner to give you an orgasm, but
Your orgasm = your responsibility.
said, there are tons of great orgasm tips - both on how to give an
orgasm and on how to get an orgasm.
However, since this is
meant to be just a relatively short blog post - or, it was,
originally :-) - then I'm not going to go into those countless kinds
of orgasm tips and all that orgasm advice here. Later!
since so many people are so very interested in the subject of
orgasms, I will share some of the ones I know with you right here on
thePersonalDevelopmentGuy.com, by doing a couple of making love
articles focused on orgasms.
But, for now, back to the 'how
to give a female an orgasm' conversation with my friend's niece.
How to Give a Female an Orgasm - Without Even Touching:
Look, No Hands:
Non-physical Love Making
continued, "as to the second part of your question - if you can give
a female an orgasm "without even touching her" - the answer is yes,
provided you mean "without touching her physical body with your
She nodded, her eyes now both big and wide, and
her attention focused one hundred percent on me.
have to touch physically in order to affect another person. You know
this very well, you experience it every day. We affect each other
greatly without touching."
(In fact, I would seem to be
affecting you by writing this and you reading it; even though we've
probably never met and may even live in different parts of the
"All you have to do," I went on, "is take this
knowledge to the next level, combine it with the fact that orgasm is
all about allowing and presto! You have the possibility of orgasm as
a result of non-physical-body interaction." (Or, as the case may be,
the beginning of the answer to how to give a female an orgasm
without even touching). How to Give a Female an Orgasm -
Without Even Touching:
Sex Talk and Love Talk Leading to
"You know," I continued, "I used to know a woman who
was able to get an orgasm (and to give an orgasm, too) just by
talking intimately and intently (sex talk and love talk) with her
male partner of many years.
These two people, of course, did know
each other VERY well by then, but the fact is that 'mere' talk,
would do it, would bring about orgasm. Or that's what she told me. I
didn't see (or hear) it myself ... I didn't know her that well.
My own experiences with how to give a female an orgasm and how
to get an orgasm without physically touching are more in the area of
love plus play plus energy. Let me explain that, and please hang on
and give me the benefit of the doubt, because it is pretty advanced
She readily agreed to this, and I will now switch
from re-telling the conversation to simply telling you, the reader,
about it. How to Give a Female an Orgasm - Without Even
Introducing: Love Energy and Sex Energy (in How
to Give a Female an Orgasm)
Regardless of what we have been
taught in school, so-called non-physical energies are quite real and
can be manipulated - and experienced - in a very physical manner.
(Note: Which suggests to me that they are just as physical as, say,
household electricity, only our instruments for measuring subtle
energies are - as yet - too crude).
And there are countless
kinds of (subtle) energy. Let me just stick to two, here: Love
energy and sex energy. How to Give a Female an Orgasm -
Without Even Touching:
How to Give a Female an Orgasm -
Without Even Touching - Using Love
For instance, enormous
amounts of pure, unconditional love are ecstatic to experience. So
relaxing and opening up to the true love between two (or more)
people is ecstatic and yes, even orgasmic.
This assumes, of
course, that you love your lover. The more and the more
unconditionally the better.
Sometimes what my lover and I do
is lie chest to chest, relax completely and open up our heart
chakras (a concentration of energy located in your chest region) to
each other and let the love flow freely. That feels SOO good!
Also, as love is an energy (read more about love in the article
), you can circulate love energy between you. Any old way
you like. Here's an example:
You can circulate love energy
from your heart to the other person's heart, down through his or her
body to his or her genitalia, over to your genitalia, up through
your body to your heart and over to the other person's heart, et
cetera. This will enhance your SOO good experience many times and
can easily lead to orgasm in and of itself.
How to do that in
practice? It's as easy as deciding that that's what you want to do
and then imagining that you're doing it. This will 'make it so' very
Note that this is no more 'make believe' than you
imagining that you will touch the screen or paper on which you are
reading this and then willing your body (e.g. your hand) to do so.
You DO have to train yourself to be sensitive to subtle energies
first, though, but then these are some advanced love making tips
(like tips on tantric love making, certainly more advanced than
beginners tantra). How to Give a Female an Orgasm - Without
How to Give an Orgasm - Using Sex Energy
"Furthermore, there is pure energy in sex (sex energy) and that
energy can be directed, 'wielded'.
My personal experience is that
sex energy is often more 'dense and focused' than pure love energy.
Thus, sex energy is easier to 'wield' and manipulate (micro manage)
than love energy.
You can actually use the sex energy (which
often has its centre just below your navel) as an extension of your
consciousness - much like arm, hands and fingers, if you like. Only
better than the physical limbs, because there is no physical
limitation as to how you 'wield' your sex energy ...
'touch' your partner anywhere and everywhere at the same time -
inside the body or outside of the body.
You can use the sex
energy as a local 'fire' in one part of the body; as a big 'storm'
engulfing your partner; or as a ten, a hundred, or a thousand tiny
'rivulets' of intimate touch, for instance.
I regularly do
things like this, and it is great fun as well as arousing - not to
speak of extremely stimulating for your lover (again, provided he or
she is naturally sensitive or has consciously trained his or her
Your imagination is actually your primary tool
for using and playing with these kinds of energy. And therefore ...
The only limitations here are those of your imagination.
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